金錢或許不能為你買來愛情,但根據(jù)心理學(xué)和消費(fèi)者行為,你如何消費(fèi)多少可以反映出你的浪漫心思。如下研究發(fā)現(xiàn),單單想著和新愛侶見面就會(huì)影響我們的消費(fèi)觀,男女受影響程度不同。

These studies are largely based on “costly signalling theory” – a model borrowed from evolutionary biology which suggests that conspicuous displays serve a vital function in signalling one’s desirable traits.

研究很大程度上基于“高價(jià)信號(hào)理論”,這一模型借自進(jìn)化生物學(xué),人們想要彰顯其渴求的特征,而 曬出不易獲得的事物 能發(fā)揮至關(guān)重要的作用。

In humans, the signals displayed by men and women tend to differ, due to the different traits that are thought to be attractive to the opposite sex based on evolutionary pressures. According to costly signalling theory, men should seek to display their wealth and resources to women, while women should advertise their helpfulness and kindness to men.

對(duì)于人類而言,基于進(jìn)化壓力,男女吸引異性的特點(diǎn)不同,男女傳遞的信號(hào)也有所不同。根據(jù)“高價(jià)信號(hào)理論”,男性會(huì)尋求向女性顯示其財(cái)富和資源的機(jī)會(huì),而女性則向男性熱推其樂善好施的品質(zhì)。

Men who had romance on their minds were more likely to report that they would spend money on conspicuous luxury goods, for example a new car, a new watch, a new cell phone or a nice holiday. Women, on the other hand, did not increase their desire for luxury goods when thinking about meeting a new partner.

心懷浪漫的男士更有可能把錢花在顯而易見的奢侈品上,如新車、新表、新手機(jī)和美好的假期。而另一方面,女性想著要見新約會(huì)對(duì)象時(shí)并不會(huì)增加她想買奢侈品的欲望。

Surprisingly, this study also found that women who possessed luxury goods were seen by other women as having a more devoted romantic partner.

出人意料的是,這項(xiàng)研究還發(fā)現(xiàn),擁有奢侈品的女性在其他女性看來意味著有一個(gè)摯愛的愛侶。

Men are willing to pay more for a conspicuous luxury car after thinking about a romantic rejection. This could be due to their desire to attract a new partner, after having had their self-esteem harmed. However, women show the opposite pattern: they are willing to pay more for a luxury car after thinking about a romantic success, likely because they view the car as a sign of relationship commitment with their partner.

男性若求愛遭拒,思來想去后是愿意花錢買招搖的奢侈轎車的。這可能因?yàn)槟行栽谧宰鹦脑鈧�害后有吸引新伴侶的欲望。而女性則是相反的模式:她們?cè)谡J(rèn)為愛情順利的情況下才會(huì)愿意買豪車的,這很有可能是因?yàn)榕�性把這視為她們愛情不渝的標(biāo)志。