I used to believe

Recently, I had to change my thinking, when I came face to face with just such a human being. I had gone to a happening coffee place, with two of my grown up daughters. The place was crowded with the usual loud crowd and we had to climb a steep flight of stairs in order to find an empty table. After enjoying coffee and snacks, we were at the steep descent down the stairs, where the narrow space made climbing down only possible in a single file, with hardly any space for another person to either climb up or come down.

最近,在我遇到這樣一個(gè)人后,我的想法

Just as I was in the middle of my descent, a gentleman entered the main entrance of the restaurant which was right in front of the staircase. I was sure I would be pushed roughly by this man who will want to go up in a hurry. I kept coming down as fast as I could, holding on to the bannister, in lieu of my advanced years. My agile daughters were already down, looking up at me worriedly, hoping I would reach them before the stranger started up the stairs, knowing I was a nervous sort.

當(dāng)我下樓梯走到一半時(shí),一個(gè)紳士從咖啡廳的正門,也是樓梯的右前方走了進(jìn)來。我敢肯定我會(huì)被這個(gè)著急上樓的人粗暴地推開。于是我抓住了扶手,并用我有史以來最快的速度下樓。我那兩個(gè)動(dòng)作敏捷的女兒已經(jīng)下樓了,她們憂心忡忡地抬頭看著我,希望我能夠在這個(gè)陌生人上樓前下來,因?yàn)樗齻冎�道我是一個(gè)容易神經(jīng)緊張的人。

Nearly reaching them, I noticed the man still standing near the door. I reached my daughters and passed the stranger at the entrance door which he kept holding open. I looked back thinking he was still at the door, deciding whether to go in or find another less crowded place. I saw him going up the stairs, two at a time. I told my daughters about it and all three of us felt bad that we did not even thank the courteous gentleman who was actually holding the door open for us ladies to pass through before going up.

在快走到樓下時(shí),我注意到那個(gè)人仍然站在門口。我走到我的女兒身邊,經(jīng)過那個(gè)站在門口的陌生人身旁時(shí)發(fā)現(xiàn)他用手抵住了門。我回頭看了看,以為他還在門口,決定著是否要進(jìn)去光顧或是找另一家人少的店。但我看見他以一步兩階樓梯的速度上了樓。我把我看到的告訴了女兒們,我們?nèi)齻�(gè)人都因?yàn)槟俏槐虮蛴卸Y的紳士在上樓前拉住了門讓我們先行,但我們因沒有感謝他而深感愧疚。

We applauded his chivalry for both, waiting for us to come down before going up himself and also holding the main entrance door open for us to go out. Such well mannered people are hard to find these days, when shoving, jostling and pushing is very common in our advanced but aggressive society. Till date, I remember this gentleman and pray to God to make more human beings like him.

那位紳士在上樓前等待我們先下樓,并且為我們拉開門以方便我們出去,我們都為他這樣的騎士精神贊不絕口。在當(dāng)今推搡沖撞現(xiàn)象橫行、先進(jìn)卻激進(jìn)的社會(huì)中,這樣有禮貌的人著實(shí)難尋。直到今天,我仍記得這位先生,祈求上帝能讓更多的人和他一樣以禮待人。