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不容錯過的30個人生哲理
1. There comes a point in life when you get tired of chasing everyone and trying to fix everything, but it’s not giving up. It’s realizing you don’t need certain people and things and the drama they bring.
當你厭倦于追逐某個人或者試著去適應某些事物時,這并不代表著你在自暴自棄。只是你明白了,你就是你自己,而那些人、那些事以及他們所帶來的東西并不是你想要的。
2. If a person wants to be a part of your life they will make an obvious effort to do so. Don’t bother reserving a space in your heart for people who do not make an effort to stay.
如果一個人想要成為你生命中的一部分,他們的努力,你會看得到。相反的,在你的世界里,你也不必苦心為那些不重視你的人留有一席之地。
3. If you want to fly, you have to give up the things that weigh you down – which is not always as obvious and easy as it sounds.
如果你想飛,你必須放棄阻礙你騰空的東西。這聽上去容易,但做起來卻很難。
4. Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing.
即使做一件事情錯了十次,也比什么都不做來得強。
5. Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success. You don’t fail by falling down. You fail by never getting back up. Sometimes you just have to forget how you feel, remember what you deserve, and keep pushing forward.
每一次的成功背后總是有著一連串的失敗,而每一次的失敗卻使你離成功更近一步。摔倒了,并不意味著你失敗了。真正的失敗,是你摔倒之后再也沒有站起來。有時候,忘記你的感受,記住你應得的,然后繼續(xù)前進,這就是你該做的。
6. When you get to know people with different ethnic backgrounds, from different cities and countries, who live at various socioeconomic levels, you begin to realize that everyone basically wants the same things. They want validation, love, happiness, fulfillment and hopes for a better future. The way they pursue these desires is where things branch off, but the fundamentals are the same. You can relate to almost everyone everywhere if you look past the superficial facades that divide us.
當你認識了來自不同種族、不同城市、不同國家、不同社會階層的人后,你會明白,人們最根本的需求都是一致的。那就是被肯定、愛或者被愛、獲得幸福、得到滿足以及對未來美好生活的向往。盡管他們追求的方式不同,但是本質是不變的。當你透過表象看到本質時,你會發(fā)現(xiàn)世界各地的人都是相通的。
7. The more things you own, the more your things own you. Less truly gives you more freedom.
擁有越多,限制越多。反之,你將獲得更多自由。
8. While you’re busy looking for the perfect person, you’ll probably miss the imperfect person who could make you perfectly happy. This is as true for friendships as it is for intimate relationships. Finding a companion or a friend isn’t about trying to transform yourself into the perfect image of what you think they want. It’s about being exactly who you are and then finding someone who appreciates that.
當你在尋找最好的那個人時,你可能會錯過那個不怎么完美卻可以讓你真正快樂的人。友情或者其它親密的關系都是如此。尋找伴侶或是朋友,并不是要你變成你以為他們會喜歡的那類人。就做你自己,你會找到那個欣賞你的人。
9. Relationships must be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. There’s no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason.
請慎重選擇你的人際關系,寧缺毋濫。沒有必要操之過急,不是不來,只是時候未到。相信你一定會在對的時間遇上對的人。
10. Making a thousand friends is not a miracle. A miracle is making one friend who will stand by your side when thousands are against you.
有一千個朋友并不是什么了不起的事兒。真正了不起的是,有那么一個朋友,在其他人都背棄你的時候,始終站在你的身邊支持你。
11. Someone will always be better looking. Someone will always be smarter. Someone will always be more charismatic. But they will never be you – with your exact ideas, knowledge and skills.
總會有人比你漂亮、比你聰明、比你有魅力。但是他們終究不是你,也同樣不會擁有你獨有的思想、知識和技能。
12. Making progress involves risk. Period. You can’t make it to second base with your foot on first.
前進的路上總會存在風險。這毋庸置疑。總不見得你腳還踩在一壘上就想著跑到二壘去吧。
13. Every morning you are faced with two choices: You can aimlessly stumble through the day not knowing what’s going to happen and simply react to events at a moment’s notice, or you can go through the day directing your own life and making your own decisions and destiny.
每天早上醒來你都有兩個選擇:一是碌碌無為、虛度光陰,等到事情迫在眉睫了才勉強去應對。而另一種選擇是,把命運掌握在你自己的手里,你的人生你做主。
14. Everyone makes mistakes. If you can’t forgive others, don’t expect others to forgive you. To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover the prisoner was you.
人無完人,是人都會犯錯。你不去原諒別人的過錯,憑什么奢望別人會原諒你?原諒,不僅僅是對他人的諒解,也是對自己的寬恕。
15. It’s okay to fall apart for a little while. You don’t always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well. You shouldn’t be concerned with what other people are thinking either – cry if you need to – it’s healthy to shed your tears. The sooner you do, the sooner you will be able to smile again.
休息是為了走得更遠,偶爾崩潰一下也未嘗不可。不要總是假裝自己很堅強,無謂地去證明一切都很好。也不必太在意別人的看法,想哭就哭,誰說流淚對身體不好呢?但記住,哭完了,請你繼續(xù)微笑著面對人生。
16.We sometimes do things that are permanently foolish just because we are temporarily upset. A lot of heartache can be avoided if you learn to control your emotions.有時候我們會因為一時的失意做出讓我們抱憾終身的事情。學會控制你的情緒,你就不會為很多無謂的事情心痛了。
17.Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right. There are many roads to what’s right. You cannot judge others by your own past. They are living a different life than you. What might be good for one person may not be good for another. What might be bad for one person might change another person’s life for the better. You have to allow people to make their own mistakes and their own decisions.縱然你是對的,你也不能全盤否定別人。正確的定義有很多。你不能將你的價值觀強加在別人身上。每個人都是不同的。對于這個人而言這是對的,但對那個人卻不一定。同樣的,也許對某人不利的卻改善了另一個人的一生。你得允許別人犯錯,也要允許他們自己做決定。
18.Nobody is perfect, and nobody deserves to be perfect. Nobody has it easy. You never know what people are going through. Every one of us has issues. So don’t belittle yourself or anyone else. Everybody is fighting their own unique war.人無完人,也沒有必須完美。每個人過得都不容易。你不會知道他們都經(jīng)歷了些什么。每個人都有自己要去做的事情。所以,不要輕視你自己或者他人。每個人都有自己要去應對的戰(zhàn)爭。
19.A smile doesn’t always mean a person is happy. Sometimes it simply means they are strong enough to face their problems.有時候,微笑,并不代表快樂。僅僅說明面對困難,我們足夠堅強。
20.The happiest people I know keep an open mind to new ideas and ventures, use their leisure time as a means of mental development, and love good music, good books, good pictures, good company and good conversation. And oftentimes they are also the cause of happiness in others – me in particular.我認識的最快樂的人,他們思想開放、敢于冒險;他們會利用閑暇時光來提升心智,熱愛高雅的音樂、有深度的書籍、精美的畫作、杰出的工作伙伴還有睿智的談話。通常,他們也是其他人快樂的源泉——對我尤其如此。
21.You can’t take things too personally. Rarely do people do things because of you. They do things because of them.你不能太主觀臆斷。沒有人是生下來就為你而活的。他們的所作所為也是為了他們自己。
22.Feelings change, people change, and time keeps rolling. You can hold on to past mistakes or you can create your own happiness. A smile is a choice, not a miracle. True happiness comes from within. Don’t make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy.情變了、人變了、而時間依然在向前奔跑。你可以選擇繼續(xù)沉溺于過去的失敗,或是開創(chuàng)你自己新的幸福。微笑,只是一個選擇,不是奇跡。真正的幸福是發(fā)自內(nèi)心的。不要以為會有某個人或某件事來給你幸福。
23.It’s much harder to change the length of your life than it is to change the depth of it.我們無法改變?nèi)松拈L度,卻可以改變它的深度。
24.You end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.最終,那些你后悔“沒做”的事情,總是比“做過”的事情要多。
25.When you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right things a chance to catch you.當你不再執(zhí)迷不悟時,你給了自己一個機會,去走上正確的道路。
26.One of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make you like everyone else.人生一大難事,就是做你自己。因為總是有那么多的因素讓你變得和別人一樣。
27.Enjoy the little things, because one day you may look back and discover they were the big things.珍惜不起眼的“小”,因為,有一天,當你回首往事,你會發(fā)現(xiàn)那些看似微不足道的“小”,才是真正的“大”。
28.Anyone can make a difference. Making one person smile can change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world.人人都能改變世界。讓人微笑并不會改變整個世界,但會改變他(她)自己的世界。
29.Everything is a life lesson. Everyone you meet, everything you encounter, etc. They’re all part of the learning experience we call ‘life.’ Never forget to acknowledge the lesson, especially when things don’t go your way. If you don’t get a job that you wanted or a relationship doesn’t work, it only means something better is out there waiting. And the lesson you just learned is the first step towards it.生活中,到處都是學堂。每一個你遇見的人、每一件你經(jīng)歷的事情等等,它們共同組成了這樣一個大學堂,我們稱之為“人生”。你應該感謝它們,特別是當你遇到不順時。如果你找不到心儀的工作,人際關系不和諧,不要擔心,這意味著有更好的正在遠處等著你。就在剛才,你已經(jīng)學會了一課,那就是勇敢得邁出第一步。
30.Regardless of how filthy your past has been, your future is still spotless. Don’t start your day with the broken pieces of yesterday. Every day is a fresh start. Each day is a new beginning. Every morning we wake up is the first day of the rest of our life.不管你的過去有多糟糕,你的未來仍是一塵未染的。不要帶著昨日的殘片來開始今天的生活。每一天都是新的開始。每天早上醒來,又是余下人生的第一天。
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